Posts Tagged ‘love’

Jesse : – )

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

Jesse was surrendered by his owners to Animal Care and Control.  No one knows why.  As many of you know due to the extremely high volume of animals that come into the ACC, many do not live for long – they are euthanized to make way for ever more animals that come through their doors.  Bobbi and the Strays takes into their care many animals from places like the ACC – thereby removing them from the euthanasia lists and giving them a truly second chance at life.  Luckily, Jesse was rescued by Bobbi and the Strays and given this chance. 

Both of my cats had died – a few years apart – from cancer.  I was devastated and took a break from having any pets.  Then one day I decided it was time and I wanted to adopt a pair of cats.  Another volunteer, Carl, first suggested Jesse, a three year old - he was one of his favorites.  I also adopted a little 10 month old girl that I soon renamed Takoda. 

Jesse and Takoda got along pretty well soon after they arrived home, especially being together for the first time – and in a new place.  Now they are true pals – they chase eachother all around the apartment, wrestle, cuddle, and clean eachother. 

From when I first took Jesse home, though, he was afraid of some basic stuff.  Loud or strange noises of any kind – like a sneeze, a cough, dropping something, etc. would send him off into hiding. 

He also had no idea what a toy was.  When I showed him the toys I had for him he would whack them violently to get them away from him.  He had no idea what to do with them.  Slowly as he watched Takoda play with the toys and me – he started coming around.  Now he ENJOYS his toys SO much – especially the ones he can carry around in his mouth.  He even brings them to bed.  (He did have to learn not to play with them in the bed while mommy was trying to sleep, though.  Actually – I think he still may be learning this sometimes. :-) )

Another weird thing about him when I first adopted him was that he was afraid of people’s faces – everyones face.  And he used to smack me – kind of hard – in the head and face with both paws if I tried to put my face anywhere near him.  The first time I just thought he had to get used to me.  But who likes getting smacked in the head?  He never used his claws – so he was never nasty – just afraid - who knows what he had been through?  I already knew he never had any toys.  Who knows what else he never had. 

I tried not to look him in the face and would hold him under my chin or next to my face to get him used to being by a face. I would even quickly sneak in a kiss on his head and then look away or put him down. He still wanted to smack but I just made sure to hold his paws.  He even wanted to whack his veterinarian when the doctor tried to look in his eyes… 

But it took only just a little bit of time to show Jesse that no one was trying to eat him or anything.  Now Jesse loves to be hugged and kissed all over his head and face – all the time!  He even absolutely insists on being picked up, hugged, and kissed EVERY time I come home – even if I just go to throw the garbage out.  He even comes over and mushes his head right into my face – especially each morning - he LOVES faces now. 

Sweet Jesse

Sweet Jesse

He still ocassionally runs out of the room when I sneeze, though.  And he sometimes scares himself – where all of his hair stands on end and his tail gets all puffy – if he knocks something over too. :-)

All cats want to be loved and taken care of.  Isn’t that really what people want too?  Sometimes it just takes just a little bit of time for adoptees to truly understand that the lives they once knew are over – and that someone really loves them. 

Lap Time

Lap Time

You know what they say – adopt a stray and receive love everyday.  I can not imagine my life without Jesse and Takoda.  They make me smile and laugh every single day.

Jesse and Takoda

Jesse and Takoda

Puppy Love

Tuesday, December 1st, 2009

“The puppy is sick,” was the first thing I heard when I walked into the shelter today and the last thing I wanted to hear.  I walked over to her cage. Her name is Morgan. She was the last puppy from Sadie’s litter. Sadie had given birth in our shelter after we rescued her from the side of the highway. Morgan is a 12 week old pit bull mix.

She was standing behind the cage bars looking at me with sad eyes. Then she started to cough. “Call the vet and tell them I am bringing the puppy over,” I said as I opened the cage door and took Morgan in my arms.

Morgan was a gem in the car. She sat on the passenger seat leaning up to gaze out the window. Once she started to bite the knob on the radio and the station changed. I guess she didn’t like the song. She barely coughed on the way to the vet. Sometimes just being out of the shelter environment helps them relax.

The waiting room was crowded in Howard Beach Animal Clinic and we had to wait awhile but Morgan was extremely good. She sat on my lap the whole time. I was just grateful that they were able to squeeze us in at all.

Dr Weinstein saw Morgan.  “What a beautiful puppy!” he said.  He examined her and listened to her cough. “Do you have a nebulizer at the shelter?” he asked. I nodded. “Nebulize her three times a day and give her this three times  a day.” He handed me an envelope with meds in it. 

The volunteers were finishing up walking the dogs, the staff finishing up cleaning.  We hooked up the nebulizer for Morgan and realized there was no sterilized water. So back to the vet I went, sans Morgan this time, to pick up the water.  When I came back Morgan was asleep on top of a giant blue stuffed elephant I had just washed for her at the laundry mat. She was so happy to have her “friend” back. Veronica, our wonderful morning superviser, nebulized her and given her her meds.

Puppies are so fragile. I hated leaving her at the shelter. I went outside and dig in the box of doggie coats for some small coats that would fit Morgan. I was seriously considering taking her home till she got better. Its so hard for them to feel better in the shelter especially when they are coughing like this.

“We caught it early,” Veronica said. “She will be better soon.”

I kept my plan to myself as I picked out a couple of coats and put them on top of her cage. I’d have to keep her crated a lot though I think the crate I have is bigger than the cage she is in now… It was a risk bringing a sick dog home. She could get my dogs sick if I wasn’t careful.  I thought about where I would put her… in the office was the best room though my dogs would have to pass her on their way in and out of the yard. My dogs sleep in my bedroom with me so that wouldn’t be good… I’d  have to clear out a space in the office. I just moved and all my unpacked boxes were in the office…

I decided to go home first, set things up and tomorrow if she didn’t sound any better I would bring her home.  I really couldn’t just walk in the house with Morgan. My dogs would try to jump up and sniff her and be going crazy.

When I left the shelter she was sleeping. The rest of the dogs watched me leave. Lennox, a white pit mix that I take to Alley Pond Park on weekends whimpered when I left. My heart breaks everytime I leave.

I stopped by our Atlas Adoption Center on the way home to meet with Bobbi and Denise, the wonderful girl who works the night shift at the Vetport. I make sure she knows how to use the nebulizer. “I told Mike we might have to bring the puppy home,” Denise said. Mike is her significant other.  “I don’t want to leave her there sick. He has off all next week and can take care of her.”  I just smiled at her. Denise has a huge heart. She already adopted one of the puppies because she brought her home when she was sick.

At home, I can’t stop thinking about Morgan. It breaks my heart when they get sick at the shelter. The shelter can be stressful enough without being ill.  I have everything set up incase I have to take her home tomorrow.

Even as I updated our Facebook page I came across photos of Morgan and Scotch playing in the grass at the Vetport. Scotch is a big pit bull who loved all of the puppies. He and Morgan are now best friends.  I remember the day we resced her mom off the highway and I remember the day she and the other pups were born at the shelter.  That puppy will probably be in my dreams tonight! These dogs just have a way of getting into your heart and head.  I am saying a prayer that Morgan feels better soon. I can’t wait to see her playing in the grass with Scotch again or even better yet, adopted into a great home.

To learn more about Scotch – visit Scotch’s Profile

Be sure to also check out Bobbi and the Strays Fan page on Facebook

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Pay tribute to lost loved ones

Monday, October 5th, 2009
 
We have all lost cherished family members who happened to also be our pets.  Maybe a loved one of yours has recently lost a member of their animal family.  Maybe you would like to pay tribute to someone that you have lost.  There are a few ways that Bobbi and the Strays can help – and at the same time you can help our homeless dogs and cats.
 
GIFT DONATIONS - Give a meaningful gift to your family or friends and help an animal in need at the same time by giving a Gift Donation.  A Condolence Card - acknowledging your gift - will be sent to the recipient of your choice.
To find out more about this program – please follow this link – http://www.bobbiandthestrays.org/Donate2.aspx
 
IN MEMORIAM DONATIONS – Send a message from the heart in the memory of a loved one – human or animal. Donations will be acknowledged to families with a card.  For memoriam donations of $100 or more, loved ones will also be honored on their own In Memoriam page on our website.
To find out more about this program and to view the lovely tributes to those that have passed on – please follow this link – http://www.bobbiandthestrays.org/In_Memoriam.aspx
 
Gift Donations and In Memoriam Donations are a wonderful way to honor your loved one with the knowledge that your gift will help us help so many animals in need of care and loving homes.

And if you have recently lost a loved one we would like to send our condolences to you.  It is never easy for those that have been left behind when a loved one leaves us.  We truly understand your grief and your need to grieve.  If we can help - please do let us know. 

There may be a possibility that a new addition to your home may help heal your heart some.  Maybe you can pay tribute to the one who loved you but who had to leave you – by passing on your love to yet another dog or cat that could use some love.  Please contact us if and when you are ready to receive some furry love again.